I don’t normally rant about pet peeves, but I have to make a statement about the following:
I really dislike pretentious people.
Even more so when the person is equal to me in age, education and experience!
In my position as an after school program director I have often experiened condescension from others. There isn’t a lot of “respect” that comes with my position, for whatever reason. I’ve gotten the impression from others that they assume I’m uneducated, inexperienced and that anyone could do my job because I’m babysitting. People have talked down to me and tried to walk over me. Even from those also serving in urban ministry I’ve encountered people who act like they are super important and their work is more worthy and valuable than mine. They’re all – “I’m Ms. or Mr. Big Shot and uh….who are you??!”
WWJD?
Cliche, but it’s what I have to ask myself when I experience this discrimination. When encountering pretentious people I want to raise my eyebrows and be like, “Uh, really?!” and put them in their place and elevate myself.
But, Jesus was the suffering servant of humanity, and the godly response to these pretentious people is to….let.it.go. I smile and nod and let them think whatever they want to think about me and my position and department. A) Because I know they just don’t “get” it and B) As cliche as it is to say, it’s true – God is the one who defends us and he’s a better fighter than I’ll ever be.
It’s still really, really difficult for me, though. I have a low, low tolerance for pretentiousness.
How do you deal with pretentious people?
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